Making a girl really fall in love with you is beyond having a charming smile, toned muscles, ripped abs and loads of cash to spend on her. Well, that sure attracts but it doesn’t really make a girl fall in love.
So, among many other things, here are profound things that experience has shown will can make a girl fall in love with you:
Recognize and complement things beyond her looks
Just another creep catcalling her or making sexual innuendoes can say she looks beautiful. So how does that get to her when you say the same. Of course it will make her smile because you are probably saying it like a gentleman and it’s chivalry to do such and girls like chivalry. However, the fact remains she’s used to hearing that but not used to hearing deeper things like you are a great listener, you are funny, I like your fierce personality, I like your taste in music etc. Complements like that goes deeper, it proves that you are genuinely interested in her. She will pick interest in you.
Pay attention to details
Paying attention to details shows you are genuinely interested in her, you are a great listener, a gentleman and a sweet soul.
She offhandedly mentioned that some chocolates will be great, now surprising her with a box of chocolates the next day will really get to her. I’m assuring you that gestures like that will make her easily fall in love with you especially when you top them with a touch of creativity and romance.
Be the one to calm her
Matching her stress level is bad. It makes her worse off and makes her see you as no help at all.
Let’s assume her week has been awful at week, her boss keeps frowning at her work and you are like “oh that’s so bad, you may get fired if you don’t do something real soon”
No no no, that’s no way to go about it instead try to calm her down while trying to help solve the problem. However, let your show of empathy be genuine. You wouldn’t want to ruin things by coming off as fake.
Dress to impress her
We all like visually pleasant things and good dressing is definitely pleasant. It has been written that women feel a kind of attraction for dandies. Now, am not saying be a dandy all am saying is be well dressed, girls like it especially when you do it to impress them. She will find you cute if she realised you dressed to impress her. In fact, good appearance makes a woman easily fall in love.
Have some passions and let her know of them
Have a life beyond trying to win her over. Have some passions and let her know of it. Having some passions shows that you have dreams and are trying to make something great out of life. Women find such romantic and adorable.
Besides being passionate about her, you are also passionate about painting, music, dancing, acting, writing, banking, medicine, business, philanthropy etc This gives her a broader and interesting perspective about you and will draw her close to you. The thing is women find men with dreams attractive and men without uninteresting. They easily fall in love with the former.
Be vulnerable with her
It’s Ok to be vulnerable. Open up to her, allow her entrance into your soul, it shows you are human and you need her. As your relationship progresses, open up to her on an emotional level, focus on connecting with her emotionally. That will make her feel needed and will bond you together.
Share bits of yourself with her, your fears and pains. It could encourage her to do same and both of you will achieve a level of intimacy and openness which will easily make her fall in love. Mind you, don’t be a whiner always sobbing about one issue or the other. Your vulnerability should show your strengths and triumphs not just your weaknesses and failures.
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Originally posted on 21/01/2021 @ 7:17 AM